Definition of Equanimity: (Latin: æquanimitas having an even mind; aequus even animus mind/soul) is a state of psychological stability and composure which is undisturbed by experience of or exposure to emotions, pain, or other phenomena that may cause others to lose the balance of their mind.

So how can we be calm, serene, unruffled and peaceful with all the chaos in both our inner and outer worlds? This following saying is a practical way to start learning this perfection, ‘Respect yourself to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you or makes you happy’. What power there is in choice! For it is all choice. Ask yourself, “What do I stand for?” “Do I need to create a boundary here?” “What are my limits? Or do I need to let go of the limits I have set for myself?

Whatever the choice, make it, move on and proceed. Let go of guilt, pressure, desire to please others and make changes relevant for your better good. You know what is right for you. If it is not clear to you , ask your angels or guides for assistance. They are there to help and to remind you are not alone. Give yourself time to get to know yourself better. Take the time to meditate and practice a self-discipline such as yoga or tai chi to gain a balanced mind. Learn the art of breathing. Most of all give yourself time to be.

What about when you are caught in a tricky situation, what then? I suggest using a tool to transmute negative energy: invoke the Gold and Silver Violet Flame. The gold represents the wisdom and the Silver represents the grace & harmony. Together with the violet representing transformation, healing and spirit this tool is very powerful. It transmutes the old, harmonises it, then raises the situation, place or relationship to the fifth dimension and holds it there.

You can invoke the Gold and Silver Violet Flame by calling upon St Germaine and Archangel Zadkiel 3 times to enhance the ritual as they are both guardians of the Violet Flame. Visualise the Gold and Silver flames burning through the Violet over the situation or person transmuting the negative energy bringing wisdom, grace and harmony. You can imagine this energy all over the Earth or certain parts of the world that needs healing. Of course you can use it for yourself or others who may be sick.

Archangel Zadkiel assists working with your 8th chakra, your soul star. When you visualise the Gold and Silver Violet Flame in your soul star you can accelerate your ascension. To connect further with your soul star and your other higher chakras, find yourself a selenite wand close to a meter in length and hold it above your head to tap in to your higher self.

Aura-Soma tip – Use the Violet Pomander for healing, transformation, transmutation of negativity and connection with Spirit. Use Air Conditioner of St Germaine Quintessence within your personal space to transform & transmute any negative energy. Apply Serapis Bey quintessence on your Selenite wand to connect even further with the potential of all light.